4.29.2018

36 ITEMS YOU NEED IN YOUR CAPSULE WARDROBE

Do you want a Capsule Wardrobe, but have no idea where to start?  I'm here to help!  There are so many ways of doing a capsule wardrobe.  Many people prefer a seasonal capsule and choose a number limit for how many items they will use during those months.  Since our weather fluctuates so much, I don't do a seasonal capsule, but keep everything in my closet year-round.  It makes it much easier when one day is 80 and the next is 45!

Although I'm not following this list exactly, this is what I think is ideal for feeling prepared and looking your best each day.  I'd start with the 36 basics I mention and then add in the fun pieces as you go for a more rounded wardrobe!

I feel so pretty when I wear jewel-toned tops!

Tanks and Tees: aim for 5-7 items
-start with white, gray and black basics
-add in stripes, patterns and graphics

Long-Sleeves: aim for 5-7 items
-start with white, gray and black basics
-add in sweaters, chunky knits and chambray

Outer Layers: chose basics that match everything else in your closet
-a cardigan
-a blazer
-a jeans jacket
-a pea coat

Warm Weather Bottoms: aim for 3 items
-start with basics like a jeans skirt and jeans shorts
-add in cute options like linen shorts, patterns or slouch pants

Cold Weather Bottoms: aid from 3 items
-start with basics like a pair black skinnies and a pair of skinny jeans
-add in fun options like leather, colors or joggers

Cheetah print shoes are so neutral
and match everything.

Dresses: aim for 4 items
-start with basics like a little black dress, a sundress and a denim dress
-add in pretty options like a sexy red dress or a comfortable maxi dress

Warm Weather Shoes: chose colors that match everything in your closet
-start with basics like a pair of sandals and a pair of wedges
-add in a colorful flat for a fun pop to your outfit
-add a pair of strappy heels if you dress up

Cold Weather Shoes: chose colors that match everything in your closet
-start with basics like a pair of ankle boots and a pair of calve/knee height boots
-add in a cheetah patterned shoe to make things more exciting
-add a pair of heels if you dress up

Accessories: if you enjoy accessorizing
-hats (one for summer and one for winter)
-a scarf that matches everything in your closet
-gloves
-sunglasses
-one pair gold or silver dangling earrings and one pair studs
-one gold or silver necklace
-a watch
-add in statement pieces, fun bangles and chunky rings
-a great purse that matches everything in your closet
-a versatile clutch for dates, girls-night, special events, etc.

Athletic Gear: if you exercise
-one pair shoes
-start with 3-5 complete outfits (including bottoms, tops and jackets)

I love pairing these gold dangling earrings and my
silver diamond necklace from my Grandma.

All photos by Emily Christopher at Emily Lynn Photography

Want more on the Capsule Wardrobe?  Check out some of my older posts:
2014 Fall/Winter Capsule Wardrobe (my FIRST capsule wardrobe!!!)
2016 Fall/Winter Capsule Wardrobe (focused on The Six Items Challenge)



4.05.2018

10 STEPS TO SPRING CLEAN YOUR ENTIRE HOME

Do you feel like your home is overflowing with stuff?  You don't know where it all came from or what to do with it?  Everyone has tips on how you should clean out, but it's still so overwhelming?

I want to help!  I absolutely love to clean out and organize.  I know it's not for everyone, but I want to share some things that have worked for me.  I broke down my process in 10 simple steps.  Complete them all and you will be living in a clean, clutter free home!

1.  Designate an area in your home for your THROW AWAY and GIVE AWAY piles.  Once something has made it to one of these piles, do not take it back out.  I know you'll be tempted.  We are emotionally tied to most of our belongings, but you need to avoid this if you want to be able to seriously clean out.

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

2.  Walk through your entire home and pull out the things that you already know you don't want to keep.  This will save you some time (and decision making) in the long run.  You know what things I'm talking about: that old ratty blanket, the broken toys, pile of socks without their pair, even old furniture you don't use.  As you walk through, things in each room should come to mind.  Pick them up and take them to the throw away or give away piles right away.

3.  Check expiration dates on all your products and packaged items in the kitchen, bathroom and throughout your home.  This includes your canned food, dry goods, spices, bottles of toiletries, makeup and more.  Basically, if it is packaged, it will expire.  Throw away everything that is expired. While you're at it, take everything out of the drawers, cabinets, shelves, pantry and fridge, wipe them out and replace the items you are keeping.  Not so fast...if it hasn't expired yet, but you don't use it anymore or never did in the first place, you still need to throw it away or give it away.

4.  Look into ingredients.  It's becoming more widely known that many products contain dangerous (even cancer causing) ingredients!  As you're checking expiration dates, take time to look at the ingredients in each and every labeled product and packaged item you own.  You can use the Skin Deep website to research each product and/or ingredient.  Or you can use the Think Dirty app.  As for food, I try to stick with "one ingredient" items.  For example, a sweet potato is simply a sweet potato: one ingredient.  A banana is one ingredient.  Basically, if you are buying whole, fresh foods, they will be one ingredient foods.  Once you start buying anything with a package or a label, you'll have to be very careful to read what's inside.

5.  Go through clothing.  If something is too big, too small, stretched out, has holes or is broken, discolored, picked or doesn't flatter, it's time for it to go.  If it's still in good shape, but you just don't like it, give it away.  If it looks bad, throw it away or turn it to rags.  My rule is that my clothes have to be in good shape, have to flatter me and have to make me feel beautiful.  If they don't meet those three criteria, I get rid of them.  The best way to do this is to take every single piece of clothing out of all your shelves, drawers, cabinets and closets and lay it on the bed.  Wipe everything out, then only return what you are keeping!

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

6.  Get rid of extras.  You don't need 43 towels if there are five people living in your home.  Two towels per person and two for guests is a good number.  You also don't 27 sets of sheets, blankets, covers and duvets if you have a three bedroom home.  Two sets per room should be enough.  How many scarves do you have?  Sweatshirts?  Tupperware?  Old tech?  Books?  Let's not even get started on toys!  I bet you have a homeless shelter close by that would absolutely love to get these things that you're not even using.  Remember, as you clean out/off the shelves, cabinets, drawers and closets that these things are in, take a moment to wipe them out.  By now, every single storage space in your home should have been cleaned out, wiped out and reorganized with the items you are keeping.

7.  Have a look at your decor.  Are your throws and pillows looking sad?  Clock needs new batteries? Lamp broken?  Is your attic and extra storage full of stuff you aren't using or don't know what to do with?  Furniture and decor is a lot like clothing; once it's looking rough and you aren't loving it, it's time to move on.  I know you're thinking your home will look empty.  It might!  But, honestly, I'd much rather an empty place with a few beautiful pieces, than a space full of junky stuff I no longer enjoy.  That's why my home stays pretty empty looking!  As you go through your decor, wipe down the tops and sides of your furniture, clean the hanging mirrors and frames, dust everything well, wash windows, throw things in the wash and vacuum.  At this point, your home should be totally cleaned out and fresh!  Don't you feel amazing?

8.  Do another walk through.  As you look through each room, be brutally honest with yourself.  All that should be left are 1. things that you use regularly and truly love  and 2. things that are in great condition, have safe ingredients and are not expired.  If you notice an item doesn't meet these requirements, pull it out and put it in the throw away or give away piles.  Don't talk yourself into keeping things.  Stay strong and remember why you're doing this!

9.  Throw away and give away right now.  If you wait, you're going to feel overwhelmed by the pile up of mess you've accumulated, or you'll rethink some things and try to pull them out of the piles and keep them.  So, if it's a throw away item, bag it up and throw it out.  If it's a give away item, find some friends who'd like some great hand-me-downs or a shelter that could use a donation!

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

10.  Treat yo'self!  You've worked hard!  Go grab coffee with a friend.  Get a pedicure.  Take a bath.  Watch a movie you've been wanting to see.  Whatever it is, do something that you'll enjoy!  You've got reason to celebrate.



3.28.2018

4 TIPS FOR GROWING YOUR BUSINESS ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Are you trying to grow an online business, but nothing's working?  There are countless bloggers and Instagramers telling you how they did it.  There are tons of seminars and trainings you can attend.  There's so much out there, but you feel paralyzed and don't know where to start, right?!

I'm here to take the confusion out of it for you.

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

I remember when I first starting using social media to sell Young Living Essential Oils.  I took awful photos and used captions that didn't draw attention.  It took lots of practice!  Four and a half years, actually.  However, I've learned a lot and made improvements along the way.  Building a business through social media is amazing because I can work from anywhere.  Coffee shops, my front porch, in the car, while traveling and visiting friends in Ireland, Scotland and Bolivia (true story).  I want to make growing your business on social media easier for you so that you can enjoy the same freedom!

First: MAKE A PLAN.  Think of six things that you are interested in.  What do you research on Google?  Browse on Pinterest?  Follow on Instagram?  Read about in books and magazines?  Talk with your friends about?  Here are my six main interests: marriage, travel, minimalism, veganism, fitness and books.  What are you six?  Write them down.

Second: GET TO WORK.  Now, you're going to start posting about those things on FaceBook, Instagram and your blog (if you have one).  So, on Monday I'll post something about my marriage, Tuesday about travel, Wednesday about being vegan and so on until I've posted about my six things.  Then, on the seventh day, I'm going to post about my product.  Keep this rotation up...forever.  Your six things can change though, as you and your interests do!

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

Third: LOOK PROFESSIONAL.  Take good photos, on your own camera or phone, for these posts.  Make sure there is enough light, that the photo is in focus, clutter free, etc.  Practice taking lots of photos and choose the best one.  You can even ask friends and family for feedback or to take some photos for you.  Luckily, I have a very talented friend who takes photos for me sometimes, Emily Christopher with Emily Lynn Photography.

Fourth: BE CONSISTENT.  This is the most important.  Whether you feel like it or not, you must post daily.  When people see you consistently posting about your life and consistently posting about your product, they will feel that you are dependable.  When they are ready to dive in and get that product, you will be at the front of their mind because of your consistent posting.

Just like growing any other type of business, growing a business on social media is hard work.  You will have some terrible photos and uninteresting captions.  Not everyone is going to come running to like your post, comment or buy your product.  You will have days that you want to quit.  This is going to take sacrifice and drive. But you can do it!

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

Write down your six things, start posting every single day on social media, work on improving and never give up.  I promise if you do these things, your business will grow.  It might be slow and steady, but it WILL grow!

Four and a half years ago, I didn't even know how to use social media.  But I've worked hard and built up a business that supports my husband and I financially so that I can stay home and he doesn't have to work if he doesn't want to.  I started at 0, but learned how to succeed.  If I can do it, anyone can, including you!


3.21.2018

HAVE I QUIT BLOGGING?

Well, hello there stranger!

I'm sure you've noticed that I've been MIA for over 3 months.  Why, you ask?  Um, not totally sure except that I just needed a break!  I've been blogging for 10 years now.  Over the past two years, I've published 2-3 new posts per week.  It took a lot of time and energy.  By the time I posted our 10 year wedding anniversary post, I decided I just needed some time away.

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

I signed up to be mentored by Lindsay Teague Moreno all of 2018.  With what I'm learning, I felt I needed to take a step back and re-evaluate.  What am I truly interested in?  What topics do I want to learn more about?  Where do I see my social media going?  How am I growing my personal brand?  I've been doing a lot of brainstorming and experimenting to see how things go.  You might have noticed some changes on my social media accounts!

As in the past, I'm still interested in crossing things off my Bucket List, minimalism, veganism, essential oils, being a small business owner and reading good books.  Lately though, I've become more interested in fitness.  I also want to get more into fashion.  Not to mention, Ironman wants me to begin to enjoy gardening with him!

Photo by Emily Lynn Photography

This time away has been good and I feel like I'm coming back refreshed and renewed, ready to blog again.  So, the answer is no, I'm not going to quit blogging!

What are some things you'd like to see on my blog in the future?  Spring Cleaning?  Essential Oils?  Business?  More travel?  I'm all ears...your ideas are welcome!


12.07.2017

10 TIPS FOR 10 YEARS OF WEDDED BLISS

Tomorrow, December 8th, is our 10 year wedding anniversary and I am totally shocked at how the time has flown by.  I absolutely love being married to Nick Stewart.  He is the best person you'll ever know and the best husband you could possibly find.  Over the past decade, I've learned, grown and changed...so, I wanted to share my 10 tips for a happy marriage.


1.  SAY THANK YOU

If Ironman takes out the trash, I tell him thank you.  If I do the laundry, Ironman says thank you.  If he stops by the store, thank you.  Thank you thank you thank you.  Sometimes we even laugh because of how often we say thank you to each other.  But it's important!  I don't want to ever forget to show Ironman how much I appreciate the things that he does for me and our home.

2.  TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

I'm Ironman's only wife, so I want to be a good one!  When he fell in love with me, he was attracted to the way I looked, dressed, my personality, etc.  So, it's important that I do my best to stay the person that he married.  Eating well, getting exercise and dressing nice are all things that Ironman notices and cares about, so I do my best to make them priorities in my life!


3.  TELL EACH OTHER THE TRUTH

Although it's hard to be honest about the hard things, it's much better to do it before they become big things.  When we think something or feel something, we take time to talk through it now.  No need to wait until it becomes built up and one of us explodes.  Most times, if we share in the very beginning, it will be something that we can more easily work through together and move past quickly.  In the long run, this means less arguments!

4.  TAKE A VACATION ALONE

I know it's tempting to go on vacations with friends and invite everyone you know and love so that no one is left out.  I get it.  But, the few times that Ironman and I have been on vacation alone have been some of our best.  We get away from everyone, turn off the social media and focus on each other.  By the time we get home, we almost always feel refreshed and have good memories of those trips together.


5.  SHARE A HOBBY OR TWO

Ironman and I love to travel together.  We love to go on bike rides.  Finding a Netflix show to binge-watch together is our favorite.  There are lots of things that we enjoy doing together and look forward to.  This is important, but it doesn't mean we have to love doing everything together.  For example, I will help with the yard but don't enjoy it.  Ironman will walk the rail trail with me, but doesn't enjoy going as often as I do.  Although we will still do things together that one of us likes more than the other, I think it's important to focus on a few favorites to share and look forward to!

6.  TALK TO EACH OTHER DAILY

I don't mean just update each other on what you did that day, but really talk.  Tell each other details of your day that stuck out or meant something to you.  Share something that you've had on your mind.  Talk through ideas that you've been brainstorming.  Dream about the future together.  Don't just talk to check off the list, talk to each other like when you were dating and trying to get to know this interesting person you're crushing on!  When we got engaged, someone gave us the advice to go to bed together every night at the same time.  We've been doing it our entire marriage and I think it's a great habit!  Many good conversations come at the end of the day, while cuddling in bed, falling asleep.


7.  GIVE COMPLIMENTS

Ironman thrives on compliments.  He loves to hear that he's doing well, that he's a hard worker, that our Fixer Upper looks beautiful, that he's talented and athletic, that he's attractive and all the other little things that I love about him.  Think about it, you go through most of your day not getting compliments.  So, when you do get a compliment, it makes you all warm and fuzzy inside and you think about it over and over for a long time.  Men and women are the same in that we both want to be complimented.  I try to compliment Ironman as often as I think about it because I want to be the one that makes him feel like a million bucks!

8.  NEVER SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE

When we got engaged, my Grandma Jackson told me the best marriage advice ever..."Don't ever say anything negative about Nick to anyone".  Although Ironman is not perfect, he's perfect for me and that's good enough.  The world's hard enough already and people are just trying to survive.  There's no point in talking crap about your spouse to other people.  For one, those people will get sick of being around you because they will be tired of hearing you complain.  Another reason to avoid it is because the more you dwell on the negative, the more it will consume you.  If you are someone who talks bad, complains or says negative things about your spouse, hears some advice: stop focusing on them and start focusing on the things that you need to improve on.  I bet it will improve your marriage almost immediately.


9.  GROW TOGETHER

Just like a hobby, you need to be learning together.  Watch some documentaries, join a Sunday School class, read aloud to each other, take a course together.  If you find that you have nothing to talk about with your spouse, it may be because you aren't learning or growing.  Take time to educate yourself on something new and share your new knowledge with your spouse!  It's always fun to be around someone who loves to learn and is excited about life.

10.  GO ON DATES

Yep, get dressed up and go out to dinner or a movie or whatever you two enjoy.  I know we are slack in this area because we don't have kids and we enjoy being at home, so it's easy to just stay in.  But, there's something about making a plan, looking forward to it, putting on a great outfit and sitting across the table from each other at a restaurant.  Plus, wives really appreciate not having to plan a meal, grocery shop, cook and then clean up.  Less time doing these things means more time focused on her hubby.  And men like extra attention, right?  So, men, take your wives out regularly and treat them to a nice dinner.  It will mean the world to her.


Don't you LOVE our photos?!  Emily Christopher from Just Because Blog snapped them for us just two weeks ago!  If you need any photos done, I can give you her contact info.